by Jonathan Wolf | Apr 17, 2025 | ADHD, Advice, Behavior, college, Communication, Consistency, Energy, Expectations, Focus, Mindset, Motivation, parents, Sports, Teenagers
ADHD and Why It Matters in Sports
ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) affects millions of students — and a growing number of high school and college athletes. We can get one thing straight: ADHD isn’t just about forgetting homework or bouncing off walls — it also shows up on the field, court, track, or wherever your kid is trying to shine in sports.
While ADHD is often discussed in academic settings, it plays a big role in how athletes focus, train, compete, and recover. If your high school or college athlete has ADHD, you’ve probably seen it already. One second, they’re crushing it; the next, they’re staring into space while their coach explains a drill for the third time.
If you’re a parent of a student-athlete with ADHD, a high school or college athlete managing symptoms, or a coach working with neurodiverse players, understanding how ADHD impacts sports is crucial. Let’s talk about how ADHD messes with (and sometimes boosts) sports performance — and what to do about it.
Whether the young person is in middle-school, high-school or college it can sometimes be quite challenging to distinguish between “normal” and “could use some help” (especially these days). So let’s clear a couple things up first regarding “help”.
How ADHD Affects Athletic Performance
Athletes with ADHD may bring a ton of passion and energy to the field — but they also face unique challenges. Here’s how ADHD can influence sports:
INCONSISTENT FOCUS
- Trouble following multi-step instructions
- Drifting attention during plays, drills, or team meetings
- Zoning out at key moments
IMPULSIVE BEHAVIOR
- Jumping the gun on plays
- Taking risks without thinking them through
- Higher rates of fouls or penalties
EMOTIONAL REACTIVITY
- Frustration can spiral quickly after mistakes
- Trouble bouncing back from criticism or losses
- Difficulty regulating emotions under stress
SLEEP AND RECOVERY STRUGGLES
- Many athletes with ADHD have disrupted sleep cycles
- Poor sleep = slower reaction times, lower energy, and higher injury risk
INCREASED INJURY RISK
A study in Sports Health found that college athletes with ADHD are more likely to get injured — likely due to impulsivity or distraction during play.
ADHD Strengths in Sports
It’s not all challenges. In fact, ADHD can be a superpower in the right athletic environment.
- High energy: Ideal for high-intensity or endurance sports
- Hyper-focus: Being locked in and maintaining a deep concentration during games
- Creativity: Thinking outside the box can lead to smart and unexpected plays
Practical Strategies for Success
FOR STUDENT-ATHLETES WITH ADHD:
Use short-term goals:
Break practice into 10-15 minute mental time blocks with “missions” for each block.
Create a pre-game routine:
Use the same warm-up (include mental rehearsal, paced breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and an inner-dialogue script to help cue/prime), create a “hype” and “chill” playlist, and be consistent because consistency = less chaos
Ask questions to get clarity:
Don’t pretend to understand a play — clarify it with one of the coaches or another player. Ask for DIRECTIONS or a different way of explaining something if you need it.
Move during downtime:
Stretch, pace, or shake out between drills
Cool down mentally:
Journal, breathe or debrief after games or practices
Prioritize sleep:
No screens in bed, and try to keep
consistent sleep/wake times
Work with your doctor on meds:
Timing matters for performance (with both stimulant and non-stimulant medications)
FOR coaches working WITH athletes who have ADHD:
keep instruction clear and short.
Adhd impacts working memory and sustained attention. Communicating in this way will help reduce some of those added challenges.
repeat key information or provide an ADDITIONAL visual or kinesthetic example
most people learn through a combination of teaching styles. some players may need you or a teammate to physically demonstrate, write directions down, or HAVE a visual cue, and others may need directions repeated.
allow movement between drills
Movement can help with focus. Come up with a couple of exercises and movements that are appropriate for the environment. the goal is to provide structure and support that will allow for self-regulation while minimizing distractions for others.
Don’t over-personalize the behaviors:
frequently, fidgeting AND quick/intense EMOTIONS can be perceived as disrespect. with someone who has adhd, it is typically far from the truth.
help build emotional resilience after setbacks:
Journal, breathe, or debrief after games and practices.
connection over consequence:
ask how you can support them, not just discipline them.
FOR parents of athletes with ADHD:
Build routines at home:
Focus on establishing routines around getting your gear together, meals and snacks, and bedtime
Talk to your kid(s) about how adhd can show up in sports:
Use this article or the resources at the end to guide your conversation.
normalize needing extra support
adhd is a NEURODEVELOPMENTAL disorder, not a character flaw. there are plenty of professional athletes facing the same struggle and need extra support.
advocate with coaches and school staff:
adhd support doesn’t stop in the classroom. plus, someone with adhd needs to have that advocacy muscle to flex. leading by example provides positive modeling for the young person.
focus on progress, not perfection:
Your kid’s inner critic is likely already too harsh, so focus on progress and the process VS. outcomes and perfection. adhd minds frequently have issues with “all or nothing thinking, “ so teach them to live in the gray sometimes.
Helpful ADHD Resources for Student-Athletes and Families
Helpful ADHD Resources for Student-Athletes and Families
Final Takeaway: ADHD Isn’t a Limitation — It’s a Playbook You Need to Learn
Whether you’re a parent, a coach, or an athlete on the field, understanding ADHD is the key to unlocking performance, potential, and peace of mind.
ADHD athletes are not broken—they’re just built differently. They can reach their optimal performance with the right structure, support, and mindset.
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by YouTime Coaching | Mar 14, 2019 | Academics, Children, college, determination, Emotions, Focus, Motivation, parenting, parents, Support
Will your kid struggle as a freshman in college? Absolutely. Does the experience always need to be negative and feel like nothing good comes from it? Absolutely not.
When a kid is sent to college the exodus from being a child and living within their parent’s home to being a young adult truly begins. One major problem… teenagers being forced into an adult world, without being mentally equipped and prepared like an adult can lead to a lot of… [parents, fill in the blank]
Now Mom and Dad, please sit down and take three deep breathes because things are going to be alright.
Download our free parent assessment to see if your kid is truly
struggling and needs some additional support:
The Skinny On Your Freshman’s Struggle
Sure, your freshman kid could sustain some physical and emotional wounds during their college experience, but you kind of signed them up for it. Listen, all those nights you got on them for watching tv and making sure they started studying, the nights you made them their favorite dinner, those times you washed/dried their clothes (and probably folded), and the genuine efforts to hold to an 11pm curfew has all finally paid off.
They will have to do most or all of these things on their own now! [cue horror film music]
The question isn’t, “will my kid struggle?” it is, “how will they struggle and how will we respond?”.
To help you out a bit, here are some of the top re-occurring struggles for college students. I’ll include some pointers and a few “heads-up”.
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A FEW TOP COLLEGE STRUGGLES:
1. Homesickness
Some parents love the fact that their kid misses home, while also sympathizing with them. Keep in mind that homesickness is just as much about needs that are not being met at school as it is missing what they used to have. When you do get the coveted phone call from your freshman kid at school, listen to them closely and just maybe you will be able to see if their homesickness is a result of having challenging classes, finding it hard to connect with others, or if they simply want a care package mailed to them (always a winner).
2. Organization
College is typically more demanding than high-school in terms of work and very frequently much less structured in terms of homework/study time. This transition can be challenging for freshman and It is common to see a slip in grades because of this in addition to managing all their new freedoms. From frequently losing their cell phone or homework to their train of thought, organization can impact both physical and mental arenas. If your freshman kid shows signs of struggle with their organization skills, don’t panic. Together, look into a coaching program like www.YouTimeCoach.com and/or looking into the schools learning center services.
3. Sleep
When we are the ones lacking sleep, it is easy to notice the difference. Freshmen in college have this notion that they must perform at least 4 all-nighters the first semester, set a world record for cups of coffee or red bulls in a night, and put their ZZZ’s on the back burner. The reason behind this could be school work, a noisy environment, health issues, or higher priorities (pretty much everything). The college experience has so much to offer a freshman student, but this can create some priority confusion and FOMO (fear of missing out). A little trick, as your kid comes back for the holiday, take note of their sleep patterns. Typically the kids pulling late night study (or party) sessions will sleep in pretty late the first few nights home.
Keep these pieces of information handy for when your kid shows signs and symptoms of struggle. The best thing you can do for your kid is to be supportive, actively listen to them, empathize, and practice the skill of being non-judgmental. The pay off will be far greater than reacting through fear and anxiety.
Any questions regarding your kid, college, and their struggles?
Please email [email protected] or go to www.YouTimeCoach.com and click on the “Hire Us” page.
by YouTime Coaching | Oct 24, 2017 | Academics, Anxiety, Change, college, Communication, Confidence, Control, Focus, Growth, parenting, Uncategorized
We hear it all the time… helicopter parenting and that the millennial generation is being raised too protected from struggle, diversity, and overcoming “normal” life-stage challenges. Wherever you stand on this doesn’t necessarily matter because both sides need to learn from how they are experiencing struggle both directly and indirectly. Your college freshman will undoubtedly be faced with challenges, but it will not be everything your anxiety is telling you it will be.
There are some important takeaways and a crucial reminder.
JUST BECAUSE STRUGGLE AND YOUR CHILD’S NAME ARE IN THE SAME SENTENCE DOESN’T MEAN IT IS A CUE TO STEP IN. Understand that taking a supportive backseat versus getting into the driver seat can be quite valuable. Not only does it give your child a chance to build confidence in their abilities to navigate tough situations or seek out help but it allows parents invaluable time to build trust in their kid’s ability to handle struggle.
For parents that just sent their kids away for their first year of college here are some things you should know about what may be going on and the struggles that freshman most commonly face.
Read more of Youtime Coaching’s published article, “Know Your Kid’s Freshman College Struggles” in the Grafton News by clicking HERE.
by YouTime Coaching | Sep 26, 2017 | Advice, Anxiety, Attitudes, boundaries, Children, Communication, Compromise, Consistency, Decisions, Emotions, Expectations, Failure, Fear, Fighting, Focus, Life Coaching, Listening, parenting, parents, positive reinforcement, Trust
As a parent, ever wonder what is going on inside your kid’s mind?
Through the positive work we have completed with adolescence, young adults, and families we’ve heard and seen almost everything. Kids want their freedom (sometimes without responsibility) and respect, while parents struggle with communication, setting boundaries, and timing.
Here are ten real thoughts direct from clients about their parents.
#1 I can’t talk to them because they will just get angry at me.
#2 All they care about are grades.
#3 They tell me to stop doing things that they do all the time and it’s bullshit.
#4 They won’t understand if I told them or will make me feel like it isn’t important.
#5 They choose when it’s convenient to say no and get upset.
#6 I don’t want to be like them.
#7 I tell them what they want to hear.
#8 When I actually try to talk to them about something that happened, I just get in trouble.
#9 When you start lecturing, I stop listening.
#10 When you trash my friends, I start disliking you, not them.
Remember, parenting is an imperfect process and so is being a kid. We are not sharing this list so you can take on all of the items one by one, instead, use it as a guide to see where more attention could be placed. When it comes to your kid’s motivation things can drastically change as they get older but if you’re able to adapt with the times, stay hip, and simultaneously hold true to healthy principles then this process could be easier on you.
Here’s just one easier way to think about motivation. Remember, in parenting, effort counts.
What goes into your kid’s motivation?
Just like when a kid doesn’t get their way, the thoughts kids have about their parents are changing by the minute. The importance behind these thoughts is where the focus should lay. Communication is typically always an underlying relationship issue between parents and kids. Check out these other blogs for helpful tips on communication with your teens, How to Love Your Kids When They Are Tough to Love and Do NOT Try to be Your Child’s Best Friend.
Feel free to leave comments below or on any of our social media pages to get a conversation going!
by YouTime Coaching | Feb 8, 2017 | Academics, Anxiety, Change, Confidence, Fear, Focus, Life Coaching, Mental Health, Outcomes, Positive Psychology, Results, Stress
It’s natural for students to feel nervous as standardized tests approach.
But it’s also very easy for this anxiety to spiral out of control and affect their overall well-being. No test is worth that! (Not to mention that being paralyzed by fear is not the ideal condition for a test-taking brain.) Test anxiety can be rooted in a lack of mastery of the material, uncertainty about test-taking conditions, and/or dread of the long-term consequences of falling short—and often, some combination of the three.
If your student is suffering, take heart: test stress is not inevitable!
Each of these anxieties can be dealt with and you can minimizing test stress. Here are some strategies that can apply to almost any student preparing for almost any test.
- Own the fear. Telling a student their fear is “all in their head” is counterproductive. Of course it is—all emotions are in our heads! Instead, help your student determine what they should and should not worry about. If your student lacks mastery in a subject, their test anxiety may be very real. If they worry over material they’ve already mastered, then you’re dealing with a different type of anxiety entirely.
- One step at a time. Gradually acclimating your student to test pressures can help normalize the test-taking process for them. Completing practice tests, working under timed conditions, and learning to work in noisy environments can all help your student prepare for their experience in the testing center. A coffee shop or library—where they will have to work through sniffling, conversations, street noise, and other things that fray nerves—is a great place to prepare.
- Think outside the test. Sometimes the very format of the standardized test causes panic. In this case, help your student develop skills with something other than the test. Developing reading comprehension questions using a novel or newspaper article, or applying geometry skills by designing a bookcase or coffee table, may help your student master skills in a fun, non-threatening way.
- Practice good test hygiene. Habits can make or break a test-taker. Set routines for your student. For example, if the test will happen on a Saturday morning, set aside every Saturday morning for test prep. Work on maintaining good posture and a positive but aggressive attitude toward the test. Finally, consider mindfulness exercises that will help your student quiet their inner critic.
More than anything, emphasize keeping things in perspective. Though the SAT or ACT may seem all-important, remember that most students take the test two or three times, and there’s much more to a college application than just test scores!
This blog was written by Signet Education’s Director of Education, Sheila Akbar. Sheila is also Signet’s resident admissions and test prep expert. She has been preparing students for the SAT, ACT, and GRE for over ten years in both one-on-one and in classroom settings. Sheila holds both a BA and an MA in Near Eastern Languages and Civilizations from Harvard University and holds two PhDs from Indiana University in Comparative Literature and Near Eastern Languages and Cultures.
Signet Education provides individualized tutoring, test prep, admissions consulting, and organizational coaching for students.
by YouTime Coaching | Aug 20, 2013 | Behavior, Behavioral Change, Beliefs, Change, Energy, Focus, Outcomes, Stages of Change
Dr. John Norcross is a Professor of Psychology & Psychiatry as well as an expert on changing human behavior. With over 30 years of backed research the “Stages of Change” have been developed and have helped thousands of individual see sustainable personal/professional change.
Stemming from research based out of my undergraduate alma mater, University of Rhode Island, the “Trans-theoretical Model” became the go to formula for successful change.
One aspect of change is to conduct a little detective work in identifying what may be wrong and why it is happening in the first place. This is commonly referred to as your “Behavioral Chain”.
A Little Bit About the ABC’s
Antecedents
- Occurs prior to the event and may trigger you to act a particular way.
- Can include your environment, the people around you, the interaction with the individuals with you, and your mood.
- Some detective questioning could include; Who are you with when you experience this behavior? What mood are you in when this behavior presents itself (sad, stressed, happy, bored, anxious…etc)? What time of day does this behavior typically come out (morning, day, night)?
Behavior
- The problem behavior
- Also, the healthy alternatives to the problem behavior.
Consequence
- Occur after the problem and usually rely on what the specific problem is.
- *BEWARE* Short-term consequences can be very rewarding (taste good, relaxing…etc)
- *BEWARE* Long-term consequences can be painful and destructive (heart disease, stroke, cancers, obesity, diabetes…etc)
- We favor instant gratification rather then delayed gratification.
- Recording long-term consequences is just as important as recording the short-term.
A few tips on how to use the ABC’s to change your behavior
- Explore the antecedents to your behavior and find healthy alternative environments and social groups to prevent triggers that promote your problem behavior.
- Create new healthier alternatives and substitutes to meet your need for variety, fun, and freedom. Learn a new relaxation technique or coping skills to get you through triggering antecedents.
- Reverse the consequence to your problem behavior and work backward through the ABC’s to see what new antecedents and behaviors are necessary to end up with this new outcome.
Check out this great worksheet for your
ABC’s and behavioral chain:
*Derived from Changeology By: John Norcross, PhD
